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Trauma-informed · Ontario family law

You can represent yourself — with clarity, evidence, and dignity.

For women facing coercive control, court can feel like a second abuse — endless fees, exhaustion, and a broken system. Haven gives you the knowledge, tools, and AI support to fight for safety, your children, and a fair share without going bankrupt.

Private by design

Your notes stay on your device unless you choose to save them.

No legal jargon

Everything written in plain, supportive language.

Always free to learn

Education and tools that level the playing field.

Four ways Haven supports you

Move at your own pace. Each tool is built to reduce overwhelm and help you focus on what matters: safety, your children, and fairness.

Why this exists

The deck is stacked — let's even it out

The family system too often rewards whoever can pay the most. Survivors face costs that cause bankruptcy, abusers who weaponize delay, and judges on rotation who may not know family law. Haven gives you the knowledge and tools to meet that reality head-on.

Fees as a weapon

Endless motions and withheld disclosure are used to drain you. We help you document the pattern and ask for cost awards.

Fight fee abuse

The 50/50 myth

There's no legal presumption of equal time — the test is the child's best interests. We help you make that case.

Learn the real test

Judges on rotation

Assume nothing is remembered. We help you hand up a tight brief that names the law and the order you want.

Prep for court

A complete self-representation platform

Beyond education, Haven is a full case workspace — free to use, funded by donations.

Coercive control is recognized abuse

Since 2021, Canada's Divorce Act explicitly recognizes coercive and controlling behaviour as a form of family violence. Courts can consider patterns of domination, isolation, financial control, and intimidation when deciding parenting, support, and safety.

Haven helps you document those patterns with facts and evidence — so your experience is heard clearly, without being dismissed.

60–80%

of family-court litigants represent themselves

Patterns win

Courts respond to documented patterns, not single incidents

Evidence first

Texts, records, and logs carry weight

You're not alone

Peer support and trauma-informed guidance

Take the first small step today

You don't have to figure everything out at once. Start with a private self-assessment and let Haven guide you from there.

Begin your self-assessment